The question
Tim, from London, writes: “Since stepping away from work, I’ve been surprised by how lost I feel. I expected freedom, but what I got was a lot of empty hours and no clear direction. How do others figure out what matters after their career ends?”
Your answers
Think of retirement as a blank canvas, not an empty void.
Eugene, 58 – Thunder Bay, Ontario
Thirty years of defining myself exclusively through work made retirement feel like complete identity theft. The breakthrough came from radical reframing: this isn’t an ending, it’s creative reinvention time. Philosophy courses at the community college, mentoring relationships with young professionals, and now hosting a weekly podcast for fellow retirees have given me entirely new ways to matter in the world.
Marcus, 60 – Boston, Massachusetts
I gave myself a full “gap year” approach that removed all pressure to figure everything out immediately. Pottery classes (terrible at it), hiking groups (absolutely loved them), improv comedy (surprisingly fun and liberating) — each monthly experiment taught me something valuable about my authentic interests and hidden talents.
Gwen, 63 – Vancouver, British Columbia
Some days you’ll find me in the garage workshop, carefully turning rough lumber into something beautiful and functional. The small woodworking business doesn’t pay much, but watching a project evolve from initial idea to finished piece feeds my soul in ways that corporate meetings and quarterly reports never could.
Frank, 57 – Anchorage, Alaska
Local history research captured my imagination completely and unexpectedly.
Diana, 61 – London, UK
Structure mattered more than freedom, as it turned out. Creating my own weekly rhythm restored purpose.
Wei, 75 – Ottawa, Ontario
Online tutoring connects me with struggling high school students who need patient, encouraging guidance with mathematics and science concepts. Those incredible breakthrough moments when difficult concepts finally click keep my mind sharp while genuinely helping young people succeed academically.
Nadine, 60 – Halifax, Nova Scotia
Living in this remote, spectacularly beautiful place means having authentic native stories and wilderness knowledge worth sharing with others. Volunteer wilderness guiding allows me to combine my deep love of the outdoors with meaningful human connection. Visitors leave with much more than photographs – they carry pieces of this land’s rich history and conservation message with them back home.
Ziigwan, 67 – Dawson City, Yukon